10/22/2026
Part 1 of 2:
A $600,000 preapproval is permission—not instructions to spend $600,000.
When a lender is considering lending you $300,000, $400,000, or $600,000, the question is pretty simple: Can you pay the money back—and will they have to chase you to get it?
Your income, debt, credit history, assets, and the house itself all help them answer that question. The preapproval tells you what the lender believes you can repay. It does not tell you what you should spend.
That second decision belongs to you. Take a hard look at what the monthly payment would actually be and what would be left after paying it. Can you still save, travel, handle an emergency, help your family, and enjoy your life? Or will nearly every available dollar be going toward the house?
I like ramen noodles too—just not every night.
The lender’s job is to decide whether the loan is a reasonable risk. Your job is to decide whether the payment fits the life you want to live.
Tomorrow, in Part 2: why the mortgage payment is only part of the real cost of owning a home.