10/23/2026
If you and your siblings are deciding where your parent will live and what to sell, and your parent isn't in the room, this is for you.
If your parent still has legal capacity, they're the one who signs. They can sell, refuse, or change their mind, and whatever the kids decide at the kitchen table doesn't hold without them.
Fear makes families rush, and rushing tends to talk over the person the plan is for. Ask your parent first what they want, then build the plan around their answer. It's one uncomfortable question, and it can save a long court fight later.
I'm a Realtor, not an attorney. This is general information, not legal advice for your family's situation.
Comment AFTERCARE and I'll send you my heir negotiation guide.