11/04/2026
Don’t get me wrong.
I love it here.
Like deeply.
I will not stop talking about what a gift it is to live here.
But if one of my friends called me and said “be honest, what do I need to know before I move?”
This is what I’d tell them:
⚠️ Washington isn’t cheap anymore.
Especially the suburbs right outside Seattle.
The lifestyle is amazing but housing, property taxes, insurance, childcare, going out.
It adds up faster than people expect.
⚠️ Choosing the wrong area can make or break your experience.
This is the one I wish more people understood.
Seattle and the suburbs are not one single vibe.
Bellevue feels completely different from Mercer Island.
Kirkland feels very different from Redmond.
Issaquah feels very different from Sammamish.
Where you live will shape your actual daily life.
⚠️ The short dark days and S.A.D. are very real.
Resist the urge to hibernate.
Get outside even if it’s raining.
Happy Lights and Vitamin D really do help.
We’ve all been humbled.
⚠️ The new Light Rail is amazing and I’m a huge fan.
But not having a car will really limit your ability to get out of the city and enjoy what makes this place so special.
⚠️ It can take time to find your people.
There are so many transplants here, which is amazing.
But it also means a lot of people are rebuilding their community at the same time.
You have to put yourself out there.
Say yes to the hike.
The workout.
The class.
The coffee.
The random neighborhood thing.
Because once Washington starts to feel like home, it really feels like home.
Personally, I can’t imagine living anywhere else.
If you’re thinking about making the move and want the honest version,
comment “GUIDE” and I’ll send you my Seattle’s Most Popular Suburbs Relocation Guide.
It breaks down the most popular suburbs by price point, vibe, school ratings, commute times, and the things I wish I’d known when I moved here.