09/29/2026
As I grow older today, I feel I have become wiser.
Would like to share some thoughts.
(Some copied from others over time)
1. Forgive yourself.
2. Travel. Often. Far.
3. Revenge: It hurts you more.
4. Move every day. Find joy in it.
5. Detach from the how and the when.
6. Stay crystal clear on the "what."
7. Health first. Nothing replaces it.
8. Trusting myself let me trust others.
9. Nobody can do your inner work for you.
10. I let go of guilt. Too heavy to carry.
11. Move somewhere new. Let it remake you.
12. Your life is a series of YOUR choices.
13. With your kids: quality over quantity.
14. What I judge in others is a part of me.
15. Fear holds you hostage. Face it sooner.
16. Deepen your connection with the Source.
17. Nobody can decide who you are. Only you.
18. Nobody can shift how you feel. Only you.
19. Resentment brought me down. Released it.
20. Your children are your greatest teachers.
21. Hire coaches. Invest in yourself. Always.
22. You create your own reality by perception.
23. Stop worrying what others think. Liberation.
24. Learn constantly.
25. Fast 72 hours at least once.
26. Forgive everyone and everything. All of it.
27. Remember Oneness. Nothing is outside of you.
28. Raise your standards.
29. You can't change anyone. Only how you see them.
30. Vulnerability and sensitivity are true strengths.
31. Rejection: never a reflection, always a redirection.
32. However insurmountable the loss feels, you'll be okay.
33. Keep your palms and heart open, no matter what happens.
34. Repair the relationships you can. The rest, from within.
35. The biggest privilege is to serve. Every day, every moment.
36. How I look reflects how much I’ve let go.
37. The untrodden path is lonely. That's the leader's trade-off.
37. Live and let others live
39. Crying is the best medicine. For fear, grief, all in between.
40. Fear, worry, doubt, struggle: resistance - Let it go. Life flows.
41. Be at peace with where you are. Create from peace, not pressure.
42. Money isn't meant to be hoarded. Circulate it. The impact grows.
43. Eat less but fresh & home made. Food is nourishment, not addiction.
44. Regret is mostly what you didn't do. So I chose the risks I'd avoid.
45. Boundaries: non-negotiable. Hold them. You'll thank me for the peace.
46. Love, accept, respect and value yourself as you are. Be compassionate.
47. Leave your comfort zone daily. Make decisions that scare your old self.
48. Faith is built when tested. When life lags your inner work, double down on this.
49. Quit anything addictive (for me: caffeine, sugar, TikTok) Shows who's in charge.
50. Until 30s: someone else's life.In 40s: you choose yourself, the transition. In 50s: your true calling, with wisdom.
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