10/25/2026
I had breakfast with my youngest this morning. He’s 15, and we were talking about sports, grades, his future goals, and some of the aspirations he has.
I LOVE these conversations. Watching my children’s interests develop, hearing their ideas, and having a front row seat as they figure out who they want to become is one of my favorite parts of being a mom.
At one point, he mentioned how growing up around real estate has influenced him. From the conversations he’s overheard to the business he’s watched me build, real estate has always been part of his world.
He even mentioned how he’ll be on a road trip, see an interesting old house, and immediately think about how much I’d love seeing it.
That made me smile… and then it got me thinking.
He doesn’t know his mom NOT in real estate.
He doesn’t remember my accounting career, the long hours I worked, or the decision to leave a career I’d spent 13 years building to try something completely different.
To him, I’ve always been in real estate.
And while I certainly haven’t mastered work-life balance (my husband would gladly confirm that 😂), taking the leap and changing careers gave me more control over my schedule and the opportunity to build something of my own.
But here’s what really stuck with me after breakfast today… and it’s nothing new or earth shattering. Just a reminder.
Our kids are paying attention. Usually more than we realize.
They’re watching how we work, how we handle challenges, the risks we’re willing to take, and what we choose to prioritize.
And whether they follow in our footsteps or head in a completely different direction, we’re helping shape what they believe is possible.
I’ve spent a lot of years focused on growing my business, serving clients, helping other agents launch their businesses, and reaching my own professional goals. I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished, but lately I’ve been thinking about success a little differently.
And yes, it’s probably about time… I’m not 25 anymore. 😉
I’m realizing that I’m less interested in chasing production numbers and recognition, and more interested in building financial security, creating opportunities, and building something that lasts.
Something that creates a future for my family, not just another busy year for me.
Not just assets, but an example.
I want all three of my kids to know that hard work matters, but so does working toward something meaningful. That it’s okay to change direction, take a chance on yourself, and keep setting new goals… no matter what stage of life you’re in.
And that success isn’t necessarily about working more. Sometimes it’s about building something that gives you more choices.
I don’t know what paths my kids will ultimately choose. They’re theirs to figure out. But I hope they have the confidence to dream big, take chances, and create something incredible for themselves.
Because the legacy I want to leave them isn’t just what I’ve built. It’s what they believe they’re capable of building for themselves. 🩷🩷💙
